Return To You
A private coaching experience
for empathic and neurodivine women
✦ Reclaim your power,
✦ Reconnect with your divine identity,
✦ Live in alignment (authentically you!)
01
Reclaim
Your Power
Feel safe to be your whole, unapologetic self.
02
Reconnect
with Your Divine Identity
Embrace who you truly are and love yourself deeply.
03
Live
In Alignment
Show up authentically and live your divine purpose.
You’re Shrinking
To Stay Safe
You’ve spent so much of your life being who others want and needed you to be – keeping the peace, hiding your truth, shrinking to stay safe.
You’ve learned how to read a room, silence your instincts, and stay quiet to avoid conflict, burying your own needs under the weight of others' expectations..
Perhaps you’re in a relationship where your voice feels unheard, and being yourself doesn’t feel safe.
Or maybe you’ve left, but the scars remain, and the path forward feels unclear.
You’ve spent years trying to feel safe enough to truly be yourself…and still, you hesitate. You second-guess your voice, wondering if you're too much, not enough, or both.
Maybe, you don’t even know who you are anymore.
Stop People-Pleasing.
Start Choosing You!
You’re longing to feel like yourself, to know who you are…and love her!
You want to feel safe being seen, to share your thoughts, your creativity, and your presence, to move through your life with confidence, clarity, and a sense of inner steadiness.
You want relationships that feel mutual, nourishing, and real, to be heard and understood when you speak, and to feel held in the spaces that matter most.
You want to trust your intuition and follow it, to feel connected to your inner wisdom, to make choices with confidence…because they resonate deep in your body and spirit.
And you can!
You don’t have to wait until you’re “more healed” or “less messy.”
You can begin Now.
It’s time to come home to yourself.
Embrace Who You Are Now
(Not Who You Were Before)
This isn’t about going back to a version of yourself from childhood, or who you were before the pain…before the trauma, the people-pleasing, the shrinking, or the self-abandonment.
Instead, it’s about rediscovering who you are now, after everything you've been through.
It's about integrating those lessons, unfolding into a wiser, stronger, and more compassionate version of yourself. This is where true healing begins.
And I understand this journey because I've walked a similar path, transforming my own struggles into self-trust and authentic presence.
Feel Safe Being Seen
From Self-Doubt
For years, I'd speak up, only to be flooded with immediate regret and self-doubt.
The words would barely leave my lips before a tidal wave of internal criticism would crash over me, drowning out any sense of confidence.
Thoughts like,
"Why did I say that?"
“Uhhh, I’m probably not making any sense.”
"I should have just stayed quiet."
"What if they took it the wrong way?!"
These anxieties weren't just fleeting whispers; they were a constant, relentless echo in my mind, a cacophony of self-condemnation.
The imagined judgment from others felt so real that it made me physically shrink, pulling my energy inward, away from any potential connection.
My voice, my ideas, my true self, all felt safer hidden away, tucked behind a protective wall. The fear of being seen, truly seen, was overwhelming, leading to a profound sense of isolation.
But everything shifted when I began to truly understand my own energetic blueprint.
To Radiant Authenticity
Discovering my astrology and Human Design offered a profound insight:
My quirks aren't flaws, but powerful strengths that define exactly who I am and how I'm meant to show up.
This foundational understanding helped me shed old fears and deeply integrate all the different parts of myself… even the ones that seem contradictory.
Now, when those thoughts show up, it's much more subdued and I'm easily able to brush them off. Even when I'm speaking on stage, sharing my wisdom with a room full of women, that old fear of judgment barely flickers.
I even receive compliments from other women who tell me…
"You are thoughtful and insightful...I'm always so impressed by everything about you."
"I love how confident you are and how you express your individuality."
“I love the way you convey your thoughts. You are brilliant. I can tell.”
This shift allowed me to finally show up as my full, authentic self in every space... even with my left-brained, analytical husband, who still doesn't fully understand me and all my empathic and neurodivine quirks.
That's why I'm here. I love helping empathic and neurodivine women rediscover their divine identity, trust themselves, and show up authentically in every relationship, especially the difficult ones.
Tara truly sees me without judgment
"Tara, you are one of the very few people who truly sees me without judgment, which is incredibly sacred. You see my shadow side and invite love. This profound acceptance has been immeasurable on my path, a rare gift that has helped me move beyond others' judgments.”
Sarah Swanger
Vancouver, Washington
She’ll help you rediscover who you are
"Tara has been with me through multiple life changes, including navigating separation and divorce. While many told me what I 'should' do, Tara always guided me to what I already knew in my heart. She is a bright soul who will help you clear the hidden parts of your heart and rediscover who you are."
Karen Bell - Integrative Mental Health Practitioner
Vernal, Utah
Reclaim Your Divine Power!
You've felt the sting of not being seen, the quiet resignation of dimming your light, the exhaustion of constantly accommodating others.
What's truly happening is that your divine identity and innate power have been veiled by years of conditioning, trauma, and the pressure to conform. You are not meant to live in silent suffering or constant self-doubt.
Your empathic depth and neurodivine traits are not flaws; they are gifts waiting to be fully realized and embraced.
The truth is, you don't need to seek approval or validation outside yourself. Your deepest longing is a summons from your own soul to step into your authentic truth, to trust your intuitive guidance, and to build a life that truly nourishes you.
That's precisely what we'll do in Return To You.
This is for you if you’re ready to stop hiding and start shining.
Together, we'll move through the 7 powerful steps to return to you, integrating energy work, astrology, Human Design, your intuition, and the transformative process of creating a personal sanctuary in your home.
It's time to return to you. Are you ready?
Welcome to "Return To You"
A private coaching experience
for empathic and neurodivine women
✦ Reclaim your power
✦ Reconnect your divine identity,
✦ Live in alignment (authentically you!)
(Especially in difficult relationships)
Together, we'll journey through
The 7 Steps to Return to You
1
Reclaim Your Power
Build Unshakeable Safety
to Begin Healing
We'll uncover where and how feelings of insecurity and vulnerability have impacted your nervous system and self-worth. Then we’ll build the unshakeable internal and external safety you need to confidently begin your healing journey.
2
Create Your Sanctuary
Give Yourself Space to
Breathe and Recharge
You’ll create space for you in your life and home. A personal sanctuary, where you can go whenever you start to feel chaotic and unsure. It’s here that you will practice self-care and tend to your own needs, wants, and desires.
3
Decondition & Unmask
Shed Old Stories to Uncover Your Authentic Self
This is where the unraveling begins. We gently explore what you’ve been taught about who you “should” be and begin shedding those old stories. You’ll begin to notice when you’re hiding, people-pleasing, or abandoning yourself…and start choosing differently.
4
Rediscover Who You Are
Embrace Your Divine Identity and Love Yourself Again
Using astrology, Human Design, and your own intuition, we'll reconnect you with your true essence. You'll finally see yourself as someone divinely designed with unique strengths and spiritual gifts, allowing you to embrace and love the woman you truly are.
5
Speak Up For Yourself
Set Boundaries and
Express Your Powerful Truth
Your truth matters! Here you’ll practice setting boundaries, expressing yourself authentically, and honoring your "yes" and "no" with more clarity and less guilt. Your voice is powerful, and you deserve to be heard.
6
Trust You Intuition
Honor Your Inner Wisdom and
Make Soul-Led Choices
You stop outsourcing your decisions to everyone else. You begin to trust your inner knowing again. You make choices from your soul and honor your inner authority. We’ll work through doubt and fear and strengthen your relationship with your inner voice.
7
Live Your Divine Purpose
Shine Your Light and
Inspire Others
As you fully embody your divine identity, your purpose isn't found, it's lived. Your empathic and neurodivine gifts light your unique path, empowering you to show up authentically. You become a lighthouse, not by fixing others, but by shining your light so brightly that others around you remember their own light.
Is this what you've been searching for
(even if you couldn't quite name it)?
Join “Return To You”
You'll have complete flexibility to
start, pause, or stop your membership
whenever it suits you
What You’ll Receive
Monthly Private Coaching Calls
Intuitive, in-depth support that meets you exactly where you are with compassion and love. (TWO 60-minute calls every month)
Ongoing Messaging Support
You’ll have direct access to me between sessions through a private messaging app, so you never have to wait weeks to feel seen and be supported.
A Personal Astrology Reading
During the “Rediscover Who You Are” phase, we’ll use your birth chart to illuminate who you are…your divine identity.
Tailored Resources As Needed
I’ll create tools specifically to support your healing path, from custom EFT tapping scripts to guided meditations.
I'm here to support you every step of the way.
You don't need to "fix" yourself or be "perfect" to be loved.
You are enough...just the way you are.
Join “Return To You”
for only $250/month
I have two more spots available at $100/month
in exchange for your feedback and testimonial.
Before you enroll, I want you to pause, slow down, and take a deep breath.
If you’re feeling that sacral “yes”, awesome! You can enroll here.
If you need time to ride the emotional wave before making a decision. That’s great!
Carve out some time to feel your feelings and add this link to your calendar as a reminder to come back and check in with how you feel in a few days.
When you’re ready to take the next step, you can...
Need more clarity before enrolling?
Schedule a call with me and let's make sure this is a good fit for you.
You Belong Here If…
You feel like you’ve lost yourself somewhere along the way, and you’re craving a deeper connection to who you really are.
You’re tired of shrinking, shape-shifting, or second-guessing yourself. You’re ready to reclaim your power and choose you.
You’re in a relationship where it doesn’t feel safe to be yourself…or you’re untangling from one that made you question your worth.
You want to feel grounded in who you are, clear in what you want, and confident in how you move through the world.
You long to trust yourself again, to rely on your own voice, your own wisdom, and your own decisions, even if others don’t understand.
This Might NOT Be For You If…
Your physical safety is at risk: If you fear physical abuse for speaking up or setting boundaries, please seek immediate help. I am not qualified, nor do I have the resources, to support you in this situation. Please reach out to the National Domestic Violence Hotline for help: 800-977-7233.
You’re looking for relationship advice: While your relationships are likely to evolve as you heal and grow, this program isn't about giving specific advice on external dynamics. Instead, we'll focus on your profound internal transformation and strengthening your relationship with yourself.
You have strong negative sentiments towards religion, Christians, or "Mormons": As a member of The Church of Jesus Christ of Latter-day Saints, my faith is an important part of who I am. I also deeply value learning from diverse beliefs and honor every spiritual journey, but if you hold strong negative sentiments towards religion, Christians, or Latter-day Saints, our approaches may not align. Learn more here: Will your faith influence my coaching experience?
You're uncomfortable with spiritual or energetic modalities: My work deeply integrates tools like astrology, Human Design, and various forms of energy work to guide your transformation. If you are uncomfortable with these tools, this program may not be the best fit for you.
I'm building a better relationship with myself!
"Tara was a great support, helping me stay present and focused on my priorities. I'm building a better relationship with myself! I'm so grateful for the confidence that Tara's support and friendship have given me.”
Annette Fairchild
Rochester, Michigan
I was able to grieve and sort the emotions
"I was in the middle of transforming my life when I met Tara – shedding the old and embracing the new. I didn't want to lose that important chapter of my life and foundational experiences that made me who I am. I was able to grieve and sort the emotions, allowing me to then detach from the items.”
Christy V.
Utah
Frequently Asked Questions
Each call is a safe space to explore where you are on your journey, where you want to be, and how to bridge that gap. I’ll offer intuitive guidance, emotional support, energy healing tools, and deep compassionate listening to help you process and move forward.
You lead the pace; I hold the space.
Four months. This allows ample time to navigate each of the seven steps, with an additional support call for any area where you need more focused attention.
Visual Layout: In case you’re like me and like to see it.
Month 1: Reclaim Your Power + Create Your Sanctuary
Month 2: Decondition & Unmask + Rediscover Who You Are
Month 3: Speak Up For Yourself + Trust Your Intuition
Month 4: Live Your Divine Purpose + Bonus Coaching Call
Your Bonus Coaching Call is flexible; you can use it at any point in the program for extra support on any step, not just at the end.
The "Return To You" program is designed for sustainable, gentle progress.
It's not a race and it's not a marathon...it's a beautiful journey.
While the core of our work involves our 1:1 sessions, the integration of new insights and practices into your life is where the real transformation happens.
I believe that 1-2 hours per week outside of our sessions is a sweet spot for reflection, light exercises, or simply practicing new ways of being.
There's no rigid timeline or checklist to rush through; the focus is on what feels nourishing and realistic for you.
Not at all! I’ll guide you through everything you need to know in a simple, empowering way. These tools help you reconnect who you are, not overwhelm you with jargon.
This program is open to all belief systems, and no prior experience with tools like astrology, Human Design, or energy work is needed.
My role is to guide you through these methods in a way that feels respectful and empowering for you, helping you uncover your inherent wisdom, not overwhelm you with jargon.
I simply ask for your openness to explore them.
If something doesn't resonate, we adapt, because you are the ultimate authority on your own path.
However, if you are truly uncomfortable with using these types of tools, this program may not be a good fit for you.
As a member of The Church of Jesus Christ of Latter-day Saints, my faith is an important part of who I am.
However, my coaching is never about preaching or proselytizing.
When I share personal stories, you’ll hear me use the word "God" because that’s the spiritual language that resonates with me.
When I’m coaching you, I’ll use your spiritual language so the coaching feels aligned with your unique perspectives and experiences.
My goal is to create a space where your spirituality, whatever that looks like, is honored and supported. If this resonates with you, I think you’ll feel right at home with me.
"Your path may not look like mine, but I honor the light that guides you." - unknown
Absolutely! I have ADHD and I’ve created this program with neurodivergence (or neurodiviness, as I like to call it) in mind.
My coaching approach is highly adaptable and personalized, focusing on what feels authentic and effective for your unique processing style.
There's no one-size-fits-all here. We'll move at your pace, use methods that resonate with you, and prioritize your comfort and clarity every step of the way.
Your neurodiviness is a part of your divine design, and we'll honor it as a strength throughout our journey together.
Great question. This work isn’t just about romantic relationships.
It’s about all your relationships
- with yourself
- your friends
- your family, and even
- your body and space
Whether you’re healing from a past relationship, working through a current relationship, or preparing for a future one, this journey supports you.
As much as I wish I could answer this for you, true transformation unfolds so uniquely for each of us. While I can't promise specific outcomes, what I can wholeheartedly promise is my unwavering commitment to walking alongside you and providing a program genuinely designed to help you flourish and succeed.
The "Return To You" program is crafted holistically, integrating everything from energy work, astrology, and Human Design insights to creating your personal sanctuary, all specifically tailored for empathic and neurodivergent women.
Here's my promise to you:
If after three months of consistent calls (twice a month) and actively reaching out for support via messages, you genuinely feel you haven't made any progress, simply reach out.
We'll then schedule a complimentary private call to assess where you are, pinpoint any roadblocks, and develop a revised action plan to ensure you find the breakthroughs you're seeking.
Your profound transformation is my mission, and I'm dedicated to helping you get there.
Still have questions?
Let’s make sure "Return To You" is right for you.
You are already enough, exactly as you are.
And sometimes we need someone to help us remember this
sacred truth. You don't have to walk this path alone.
You've got this, and I've got you. 💖
Hi, I'm Tara!
I would be so honored to walk this path beside you…
To get excited as we dive into your astrology and Human Design, light up over your ah-ha moments, celebrate your progress, and witness you come alive as you reclaim your power and shine your light so brightly that others around you remember their own light.
Shine bright and be you,
Tara (rhymes with tiara 😉)
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